Alright. So, I’ve gotten to a point in my language learning journey where I know and understand enough words and grammar to get by. I can walk into a café and actually get the order right on the first try. I can ask a passerby for directions—whether I understand the instructions or not is another question. I can even engage in some small talk and point out how the sun is indeed shining. I just have to hope that whoever gets to witness my compact descriptions will respond with something I can confirm with "Exactly!” (or “Genau,” in the context of this story), to at least maintain the illusion that I understood what was just said.
I'm fairly sure about when to use Dativ instead of Akkusativ, but if you asked me to explain why, I’d probably just shrug and say, “It feels right." Just as it feels right to say I’m not a beginner anymore, but ”maybe somewhere between B1 and B2.” All cluelessness aside, though—although I can talk to people in my target language and get my point across when it comes to addressing basic needs and observations, I struggle to truly connect with the culture and the people around me. More often than not, I feel like an outsider merely reacting to my surroundings.
I know what I have to do!
I have to start engaging in real conversations with real meaning. Yikes. Deep down, I knew this moment was a long time coming. I guess I’d been hoping that if only I learned the language just a little better, I’d eventually feel fluent and ready enough to speak it with confidence—even with a native speaker.
So, I gave it a shot. You can probably guess how that went.
I fumbled. I stuttered. I mixed up words and pronounced sentences only to be filled with shame having realized I had just committed the simplest grammatical error of assigning bread the feminine gender. The countless hours of memorizing vocabulary and grammar rules, maintaining my streak on Duolingo, were all reduced to me standing frozen in front of my native interlocutor like an stone-faced statue. And I was supposed to be "conversational" at this point?!
Facing the Fear
Perhaps you’ve experienced something similar. Language-induced anxiety, along with other negative emotions such as discomfort and shame, are common among non-natives in spoken interactions—even for those proficient in the language. The fear of making mistakes, being misunderstood, or being judged can be overwhelming. It can easily feel safer to hold back and avoid the risk of sounding silly. Unfortunately, this same emotional barrier keeps us from engaging in real conversations that could allow us to experience a true sense of connection to the language, and its speakers. Choosing to stay silent rather than risking embarrassment and speaking up not only prevents us from using what we’ve already learned; it chips away at our confidence, discourages practice, and raises the barrier for engaging in meaningful conversations in future occasions.
Finding a Safe Space
How can we language learners overcome these emotional challenges then? One potential solution is finding a space that makes you feel safe not only to speak your target language, but also to make mistakes. Such a space could be the international meet-up spot in your town or a local language café organized by your municipality, or, if you don't have access to people who'd like to practice the same language as you, it could be signing up for a virtual language café—something we at Articulatte offer.
The Power of Community in Language Learning
The purpose of these safe spaces is to provide language learners with an environment where everyone is on the same journey. Everyone should have access to a supportive space where they can comfortably practice speaking without fear of judgment—a place where mistakes are seen merely as a natural part of learning. By practicing together, language learners can build confidence and share cultural and linguistic insights. At best, this collaborative learning allows the sharing of personal learning experiences in a way a traditional classroom cannot. Language learning alone can feel daunting, but in a community of language learners, you can confidently allow yourself to get lost in translation.
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